The current economic situation has affected every individual, business, and organization in America – including ex-gay organizations. I recently even received a newsletter from Jews Offering New Alternatives to Homosexuality (JONAH), virtual tzedakah box in hand. This is the first JONAH email I have ever received after more than a year of scrutinizing them, as well as being in contact a couple of times by email – while courteous, they were (understandably) not exactly welcoming of me. They know I’m not a friend to their organization; I can only assume one of two things: That they sent me the email by accident, or that they are so desperate for donations that they are even reaching out to people who actively oppose their cause. XGW has reasoned that groups like Exodus – which only a month ago laid off one of their high-profile employees – are not only feeling the economic chill, but are also feeling the effects of changing attitudes. This does not just apply to gays as a segment of the human race, but to scripture as well. I am heartened to say that I have found such a changing attitude in my local bookstore.
Jews don’t “read” the Torah. We study the Torah. That is why books like Richard Elliott Friedman’s Commentary on the Torah are so crucial to Jewish spirituality: They take the words of the Torah (known to Christians as the first five books of the Bible – the Books of Moses), held to be of Divine influence and written in the language of Men, and help the reader of those words to understand. Each Torah portion, or parashah, might only be a couple of lines. But the interpretations of a single portion might be several paragraphs. Studies like Friedman’s are part of a rich tradition of Jewish Theology. The main point that separates Jewish from Christian traditions, despite use of the same text, respectively, is not Jewish rejection of Jesus as an authority but rather the implementation of such ancient texts as the Mishnah and the Talmud – whose authority Christians reject.
I knew I wanted to buy a Torah Commentary book when I was in the bookstore. How did I decide on Friedman’s text? I went straight to the passage that is most difficult for gay Jews and Christians: Leviticus 18:22. Upon reading Friedman’s response, I knew I had found my purchase.
In the present state of knowledge concerning homosexuality, it is difficult to justify its prohibition in the Torah. All of the movements in Judaism (and other religions) are currently contending with this issue. Its resolution ultimately must lie in the law of Deuteronomy that states that, for difficult matters of the law, people must turn to the authorities of their age, to those who are competent to judge, and those judges must decide (Deuteronomy 17:8-9).
This opens up a wealth of possibility in bringing the wisdom of Torah into the modern age. Instead of shunning one another as “unbelievers” of a sort, religious leaders and secular leaders can work together.
Friedman also adds his own personal view of the verse: “In my own view, the present understanding of the nature of homosexuality indicates that it is not an “offensive thing” (also translated “abomination”) as described in this verse. The Hebrew term for “offensive thing” (“toevah”) is understood to be a relative term, which varies according to human perceptions.” His example of this relativity is Genesis 46:34, in which the Israelite Joseph tells his brothers that “any shepherd is an offensive thing to Egypt”- but shepherds are certainly not offensive to Israelites, his own people. Friedman then makes a very bold move, declaring the commandment all but obsolete:
In light of the evidence at present, homosexuality cannot be said to be unnatural, nor is it an illness. Its prohibition in this verse explicitly applies only so long as it is properly perceived to be offensive, and therefore the current state of the evidence suggests that the period in which this commandment was binding has come to an end.
Another important note he makes is the fact that female homosexuality is not explicitly condemned in the Tanakh (what Christians refer to as the “Old Testament.”) He postulates that because the Torah comes from a world of polygamy, in which a man was allowed to marry more than one woman at a time, he subsequently was also allowed to have sex with more than one woman at a time. In this situation, forbidding female homosexuality would have created more complications that would have required additional laws of contact regarding such physical relations. Such laws do not exist in the Holiness Code. Any condemnation of female homosexuality by Jews comes from additional writings from the Oral Torah, which Christians do not follow. Christians have no basis for assuming that this particular Levitical law applies to women as well as men – because it clearly does not.
Friedman’s take on Genesis 19, which contains the story of Sodom and Gomorrah, is equally eye-opening. Translation here is crucial. Genesis 19:5 says that the people came to Lot’s house where the strangers were residing and demanded they come outside so that they could “know” them. “Know” is translated correctly to imply sexual action. Friedman explains further:
The word “know” sometimes has the meaning of sexual intimacy…That is how it is commonly understood in this passage: the people are threatening sexual abuse of the guests. This is possible, and even likely (in light of a parallel story in Judges 19). But this episode is also commonly understood to be about homosexual rape. I see no basis for this whatever. The text says that two people come to Sodom, and that all of the people of Sodom come and say, “let’s know them.” The homosexuality interpretation apparently comes from misunderstanding the Hebrew word “anasim [ah-nah-SEEM]” to mean “men,” instead of “people.”
One common defense of this passage from anti-gay theology is that it is about rape and not about sexual love, such as expressed by Adam and Even “knowing” one another earlier in the book. So even if it is homosexual rape, rape is rape – one would certainly not equate heterosexual rape with the sanctity of heterosexual love-making: the same is said about homosexual rape vs. homosexual love-making. Friedman eliminates all possibility of strictly homosexual relations in his commentary by eliminating solid gender representation. In doing so, he eliminates any need to “defend” this passage, and in my opinion, clears the way for a much more meaningful understanding of Lot’s story.
As with all Torah commentary, Friedman’s is not the end-all-be-all. But it is this flexibility in Jewish theology that allows for resolutions such as the one reached by the Conservative Jewish movement of America, that both condemns and welcomes openly gay members of its community, depending on the preference of each rabbi and congregation.
This article was syndicated to our site. It prompted me to do an informational update on JONAH but there is a problem. Perhaps someone can provide some assistance.
While JONAH is a tax-exempt organization (IRS publication 78), they do not file a form 990 with the IRS. There are really only two possible reasons. 1) They have revenues under $25,000 or; 2) They claim a church exemption (in IRS-speak, a “church” means church, mosque, synagogue, etc.).
Religious organizations OTHER than churches are required to file. For example, Falwell Ministries and Regent U file; the Falwell church does not.
Any guidance on this matter would be appreciated.so that I can update our database.
Thank you for that insight about Lev 18 and Deut 17. It’s good to know.
Because I’m a Christian, I can only assume that Jews also believes the 3 visitors to be angels. There is no indication in Scripture (tho I can’t vouch for Midrash & Talmud) that angels are males. The common assumption is that they have no sex or are androgynes. Just because the text uses masculine pronouns does not mean they are males any more than they mean God has XY chromosomes.
Further to my comment, I have determined that JONAH is claiming a filing exemption due to revenues < $25,000. Does that seem possible?
BTW, Exodus reports annual revenues of $1.5 million with an annual excess of about $0.25 million.
Emily ~ Thanks so much for sharing that. I’m a Christian who nearly lost his faith over his sexuality. Did three years of ex-gay therapy and all that stuff. It’s been freeing to get different perspectives on scripture. I find that fascinating that the text of the Torah speaks of getting advice from people of the current generation. I had never heard that before. Also, regarding the difficulties the ex-gay ministries are experiencing , I am becoming more and more convinced that the word is out that this reparative therapy thing doesn’t work and even people in the right wing part of the Christian church, especially from those in the younger generations, are starting to accept that sexual orientation is fixed and natural and are willing to reapproach the scriptures on this. This was a really neat post, thanks again! :o)
David Hart, while I am definitely NOT an expert on their tax status, I would wager a GUESS that they do not bring in more than $25,000 a year. Their website is updated so sparsely, and (compared to ex-gay moguls like Exodus and even PFOX) they rarely ever make news – even on conservative websites. It would not surprise me if the organization is more of a hobby than a profession to those who run it.
But I stress that this is my HYPOTHESIS ONLY. It is quite possible that they bring in much more than that but there are other circumstances involved.
Very possible. We keep track of the 990’s of the major players. JONAH is a minor concern in that respect, as is PFOX. You will find Exodus’ down quite a bit on the next one, which ends a recent trend of increase for them. But this is rather OT for this thread, you can contact me at david@exgaywatch.com if you want to talk more along these lines. Thanks.
Interesting, but I don’t think that the religious right will be interested. They mistakenly believe that they “know” the mind of God.
I think this commentary on the Torah is a very good indication of how the Jewish community at large has tried to reconcile Scripture with homosexuality. It is also a very excellent example of how Scripture is to be approached by any walk of faith. It is not a matter of reading it at its surface and making infallible pronouncements, but rather digging deep into the mysteries of the sacred words and understanding the message they bring.
I do agree with Swapfox, however, that the religious right will not be interested in such a commentary because they approach Scripture differently. They see it as God in a business office pushing a call button and saying, “Moses, come in and dictate a letter for me.” Knowing that to copy the first five books of the Pentateuch took monks years to finish, it amazes me that they think Moses was able to take years off from his many other duties to simply sit down and take dictation. And in English even! And he even recorded his own death before it even happened!
Studying as apposed to merely reading Scripture the way Emily is describing how the Jewish community approach the Sacred Texts is what allowed me to reconcile my sexuality with my faith. Most mainstream Christian communities have moved in a similiar direction with regard to Scripture, but there will always be those who will think the earth was created in 6, 24 hour days, and that Jesus spoke perfect Shakespearean English!
PS Thanks for the interesting article Emily. 🙂 Alan
You might be right, Swampfox, but the relationship between Jews and the Religious Right is a peculiar one. On the one hand, we’re the most coveted “prize” for conversion to Christianity (specifically, Fundamentalist Evangelical Conservative Christianity). On the other hand, (largely due to factors initiated by the previous point,) we’re often held up as “shining examples” of a religious people, a people they L-O-V-E as much as G-d loves them, “the chosen people of the Bible,” the religion that Jesus came from, etc. Sometimes this works against us however, because when they align politically with certain Jewish people, and hold them up to infallible status and place them on pedestals when it comes to very human affairs, and damage can be done. And if we’re so valued and treasured by them, you might think that they might respect our Biblical views and certain ways of coming to Scriptural conclusions. And since we had the “old testament” about 3,000 years before Christians did, I’d say that our authority and knowledge of it is indeed significant, formidable, and respectable, to say the least.
Don’t want to go off topic, but I just wanted to point out that Save Me is currently out on DVD (a film about ex-gay ministries). Thought you might want to mention it on the blog.
So, in other words, Scripture endorses moral relativism. who woulda thunk it?
Certainly, no fundamentalist I could think of woulda thunk it. It must be the part of the bible that is not the word of G.
Better not go there.
Answer a fool… (Proverbs 26:5)
Answer not a fool… (Proverbs 26:4)
Guess it all depends…
I agree with you. And more importantly so does the original language of Jude 7 which uses the phrase “sarkos hetras” – literally “flesh different.”
Hi Emily and all,
thanks for this Emily. Just wondered if you’d come across Rabbi Steven Greenberg’s book, Wrestling with God and men? Chunks of it can be previewed at Google books – see
Want to commend it to folks here as I found it helpful and learnt from it (am a gay Christian by the way).
in friendship, blair
Blair,
Rabbi Greenberg’s book is virtually required reading for any orthodox Jew who’s gay. I haven’t personally read it, but admire the man for coming out. Very few are out there and he has risked his respectability in the community, his faith, and his standing as a rabbi to come out. I’m glad it helped you.
Thank you for your wonderful article, Emily. Like you—but for very different reasons—I appreciate Friedman’s commentary.
You mentioned that
How prevalent is your opinion? Can you cite any sources? Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you again, Emily!
Sincerely, jim
Jim,
You would simply have to go out and talk to a lot of religious Jewish people to test my opinion’s prevalence. But to say that “Christianity [minus] Jesus [equals] Judaism” misses even the basic tenants of my faith. Wikipedia actually does a great job compiling information about Judaism. I believe that the more one learns about Judaism within its own cultural, historical, and religious context, rather than constantly comparing it to Christianity, the more one understands the differences. I’ll refer you here.
I’ll say this, that Jesus’ relevance as a teacher is rendered moot by the Oral Torah. Teachings of his that most Christians consider “revolutionary” like the saying that “the sabbath was made for man, not man made for the sabbath” have always been a part of the Jewish understanding of scripture from the beginning – the Oral Torah was passed down with the written Torah when it was given to Moses, according to our tradition.
Jesus’ authority as being “the Messiah” also has no bearing on whether his teachings are relevant to Judaism. If you want to better understand why please visit either of these websites.