The recent hateful rant by Representative Sally Kern hit home with me, not because of the more widespread comparison she made between gay folks and terrorists, disgusting as it is, but because of her continued rant about the public schools “indoctrinating” children as young as two years old with “the homosexual lifestyle is an acceptable lifestyle.” As a 19-year veteran public school teacher, and an Oklahoma educator at that, where do I begin?
First of all, I’d like to let Representative Kern know that even though I contribute voluntarily to a pro-gay site, I’ve yet to receive my official copy of “the homosexual agenda.” Does that thing come in the mail? If so, mine is lost and I can scarcely think or conduct myself regarding these issues without such a document. In all seriousness, I’m not naive enough to say that I don’t operate from an agenda. Anyone with a couple of synapses making connections does, in fact, function based on one. I like to think of mine as a “love your neighbor as yourself” agenda. I do not base my agenda on sexuality, gay or straight, and the educators I know, even the ones who teach two-year-olds, are with me on that.
I’d venture to say that every public school in our country, and likely some private schools, are now teaching some form of character education. This has to be what Representative Kern is referring to in her rant because I know of no other curriculum that is widespread and could even begin to hint at the “indoctrination” to which she repeatedly refers. A simple search reveals that character ed programs are as prevalent in today’s schools as the soybean burger, though hopefully more tastefully produced.
Every such program I’ve read or taught focuses on teaching character traits, or more appropriately stated, making students aware of character traits. The core vocabulary of these curricula are words like respect, dignity, cooperation, fairness, trustworthiness, and tolerance. Bingo! We have a winner with tolerance. I’d venture a guess that Representative Kern’s biggest beef, or should I say soy, with public education is mangled up somewhere within the word tolerance. Take a seat Representative Kern because yes, we do teach students that they should be tolerant of people who are different, even if they are *gasp* gay. And while it’s not nearly as controversial, we also teach tolerance of people who might be Muslim, Iranian, Iraqi, or Canadian.
You see, Representative Kern, were we to determine undeniably that little Johnny were the spawn of Bin Laden, we would teach the other children to treat him as they want to be treated. I think I read that in the Bible somewhere, the one you read as you conjure up your visions of God. Furthermore, if little Johnny had two dads, we’d treat little Johnny and his dads as we want to be treated and we’d expect the other children to do so as well.
As to the more specific issue of teaching about homosexuality in schools, earlier this month the battle over the sex education curriculum in Montgomery County, Maryland officially ended as the three groups, including PFOX, who had sued the school district, declined to appeal the most recent court ruling. Montgomery County schools are now undeterred from teaching the current curriculum (PDF). I find it to be very straightforward and fair in its treatment of the subject at hand. It states that some people are homosexual or transgender, we don’t know for sure why that is, and we should treat everyone the way we want to be treated.
While I have no reason to formally link Representative Kern with PFOX, the mindset is the same. The Montgomery County sex education curriculum is considered “indoctrination” in that view because it doesn’t teach kids that homosexuality causes AIDS, depression, suicide, and a host of other conditions leading to death. Ignoring the fact that the conditions listed are not respecters of gender or sexuality, those like Kern and PFOX are less tolerant than the evil diseases they seem to fear. That’s because it’s not the diseases they see as evil, but some of the people affected by them. If they were really concerned about people dying from AIDS or suffering from depression and attempted suicide, they’d focus on efforts to find cures and help for those diseases, rather than attempting to prove that gay folks are evil because they sometimes endure suffering. It’s like blaming a female rape victim for having breasts.
From Wikipedia,
Indoctrination is the process of inculcating ideas, attitudes, cognitive strategies or a professional methodology. It is often distinguished from education by the fact that the indoctrinated person is expected not to question or critically examine the doctrine they have learned.
In the character education curricula I’ve taught as well as the sex education curriculum in place in Montgomery County, students are encouraged repeatedly to question and critically examine what is being presented. Clearly, indoctrination is not the aim. My goal as an educator is for students to think through and come to their own conclusions about why character is vital to their experience as human beings in this world. Indoctrination sounds eerily more like the opinions and attitudes expressed by Representative Kern. I choose to question her attempt at indoctrination and form my own opinion about gay folks, threats to my country, and how to treat others as I wish to be treated.
well said, it seems any time a gay person is treated as just that — a person, someone gets upset and starts talking about the gay agenda, indoctrination, brainwashing even.
Great post, Pam. I loved it!
Very well put, Pam, as usual. Thank you.
Pam,
Great post, thank you for taking the time.
Oh and, you teach tolerance of “Canadians?!?” You are radical. 🙂
This is a good perspective from an educator in Representative Kern’s state. Could an openly gay educator teach the same lesson on tolerance? Especially, in Oklahoma or in any staunchly conservative school district.
How does a gay educator deal with teaching tolerance when he himself is forced to stay mum about his orientation? I have to remind some people about the Wendy Weaver incident in Utah in 1998 and nothing much has changed since then. Most, if not all, teachers who are gay are forced to live and work in constant fear.
You can’t teach tolerance when your own tolerance is being compromised.
Dear Pam,
Thank you–your approach to education and character is to be commended. Where were you when I was growing up? The world needs more educators like you. Would you consider a teaching job in Ohio?
Thanks!
– Kurt
p.s. I hope my letter didn’t have too many gramatical errors.
Pam,
In regards to your copy of The Agenda(tm) (we’ve dropped the word “homosexual” from the official title for the sake of brevity), I’m afraid that someone has failed to keep you informed of our new policy on that.
You see, in order to keep The Agenda(tm) secure from prying eyes who would expose our nefarious plans, we’ve had to implement new policies of when someone is provided with their copy.
Unfortunately, being a contributor at XGW, though highly admirable, is no longer a strong enough indication of your commitment to entrust you with a copy of The Agenda(tm). Instead, a copy will only be entrusted to you after you have successfully recruited no less than three first graders into our ranks. Upon completion of this task, we will be assured of your commitment to The Agenda(tm) and will gladly induct you into our inner circle. 😉
I’ll have a more serious comment after I’ve given your post the more thorough reading it deserves.
Good article.
And that’s all I’m saying, ’cause I only really left a comment so I could subscribe to the thread.
Pam Ferguson and Sally Kern have many things in common.
Both are heterosexual female educators for roughly 20 years. Both live in Oklahoma and both have children.
Both claim alliegence to Christianity and base much of their belief system on their faith. Both have witnessed a loved one who experienced unconventional sexuality.
Yet the contrast between their approach to life could not be more profound.
Pam looks for common ground, shows empathy, seeks to love her neighbor, apologizes when she offends, and always looks for ways to show a loving God to the world. Mrs. Kern would do well to emulate her.
Very well put!
Great job Pam!
Timothy, I don’t think anyone could have stated that better!
I wish I could vote in Oklahomo. Sally Kern was elected into office with approx 8,800 votes. Please keep America posted on when she is up for reelection and who her opponent is.
It is time for Sally to speak to the good people of her church as a loyal, bible thumping wife of a minister and not to teh public as an elected official who is expected to represent all the people in her distrct.
Super job, Pam. And loved your response, Timothy.
Me too Pam, wow! I started reading it and I couldn’t stop. Insightful and very gracious. It gave me some pause. I appreciate it, thank you.
Pam
What everyone above said! Yes, very well written article.
As a resident and former teacher (now retired) in Mongtomery County (MD) I can attest to the county’s history of teaching tolerance and acceptance. We were the first county in the state to remove anti-gay hiring practices, for example. Unfortunately we have been beset by a very small but vocal group (known as Citizens for Responsible Curriculum) who have created havoc, not to say very expensive court suits that the school system has been obligated to respond to (money better spent on educating our students about tolerance and acceptance.) This group has been defeated time after time in liberal Montgomery County but it doesn’t stop them from spewing their ignorance, hatred, and bigotry against our GLBT residents. A pox on them!!
Can I get a witness?
Pam, you nailed sister/friend. I see the difference as a bigger heart and mind. Pam’s have grown from filling them with love and MORE education and introspection.
You have to nurture those things for growth and maturity. And like those mighty oaks…those things truly endure.
Sally Kern has been in the shadow of fear and ignorance. And things can’t grow given that kind of fertilizer.
Her heart and mind are too small. Of course, once in the proper light…she could grow too.
:0P
LOVE you, Pam. Girl you know you rock!
By the by….how are your boys?
I’m offended! I love soy burgers.
This was so well put. I wish there were not only more educators and people of faith like you but just plain people in general. What a wonderful post. Very encouraging.
Pam:
What a concept! Maybe we as a Christian community as a whole will one day do just that. Wouldn’t that be a change! After all, our leader did make it a requirement.
As for “indoctrination,” most schools in the US are aiming toward “problem-solving” ciriculum not “knowledge-based” because the work force has shifted from assembly-line routine to creativity and the need to solve problems in a complex and diverse society. Higher order thinking questions from Bloom’s Taxonomy is used so much in Language Arts. These questions would fall flat on any type of indoctrination as they require the student to use his or her own experiences and knowledge to answer the questions.
What is interesting is religions that insist on indoctrination are the first to accuse public schools of doing the exact same thing. Question or deny a doctrine and they are ready to send you to “h” “e” “double hockey sticks.” Fundamentalists in both the Protestant and Orthodox / Catholic traditions are destroying the faith by not allowing for questioning and discernment.
The ability to think and question is a gift which people seldom use. That I believe stems from ignorance, or the inability to admit that an opinion may be wrong. But to exercise and “indoctrinate” that opinion upon other people as the only processed truth is just so saddening.
For Sally Kern to accuse others of doing something that she is doing so blatantly is not a sincere way of relating to people indeed. For Pam to recommend dialogue and discussion is a sweet path for mankind to walk on. : )
Make sure to get your copy of the agenda. Otherwise you won’t be able to receive your free toaster for new recruits 🙂
Chris
Great work Pam! Thanks for this post.
Chris: Where the heck have you been? Every active gay activist working the Agenda has a closet-full of toasters. I have resorted to giving them away to unsuspecting kids on Halloween. My own sons now believe that toast is a major food group. The new catalog has a host of new and useful gifts. I especially like the super hypnotic eyeglasses. Great as a gift, they are also great recruitment tools. Try luring an 18 yr old into your house with a piece of toast. The glasses get them in the door and up the stairs in seconds.