Meryl Cohn, a.k.a. Ms. Behavior, today advises an ex-gay man on his lack of honesty with his (female) fiance about his gay past, about their “not-so-exciting sex life,” and whether acting straight really makes one straight.
Instead of telling the man to become ex-ex-gay and dump his girlfriend, the columnist thoughtfully encourages the man to talk to a therapist, be honest with his fiance, and see where things go.