Some antigay Christians are uncomfortable thinking about the world in tangible, rational, measurable, logical terms.
These individuals — indeed, whole denominations — may be more comfortable reducing the world to primeval “curses and blessings” — superstitions and ghosts.
Douglas Jones and Douglas Wilson present themselves as two such individuals. In Owning the Curse: Rethinking Same-Sex Marriage, Jones and Wilson reduce readers’ moral vision to the following flawed, unidimensional assumptions. Wilson, a Calvinist, earns praise from Marvin Olasky.
The authors’ assertions are in italics below, followed by my response.
Homosexuality is a judgment from God. Citing just a single sentence of the Bible, the authors assert that homosexuality (which they do not define) is God’s end-times infliction upon a society that He has abandoned. In order to justify this assumption, the authors:
- misappropriate and exaggerate an isolated Bible verse;
- ignore the simple fact that homosexuality has always been widespread — but brutally and hatefully suppressed by authoritarian societies in which individual freedom does not exist;
- perceive that homosexuality is God’s punishment for the “normal idolatries” of the authors’ religious community — but they decline to name the idolatries of which they are guilty.
Homosexuality is primarily a judgment against the Church. Well-disguised victimology here: The church is being righteously victimized by an angry God, and homosexuals — lower than a plague of locusts in the authors’ scheme of things — are God’s passive-aggressive way of lashing out in vengeance.
Curses are removed by our repentance, not denunciations of “them.” This assertion should make Exodus officials squirm on two counts: Alan Chambers’ claim that saved Christians like himself do not qualify as sinners, and more broadly the exgay political leadership’s false assertion that, unlike gay people, exgay activists are repentant of their sins. (Quite the opposite: Many gay individuals, like many heterosexuals, possess a broad perspective on the scope and depth of right and wrong — while activists affiliated with the religious right trivialize morality by reducing it to a mud-slinging fight over abortion, euthanasia, and homosexuality.)
While this effort by the authors to assume some moral responsibility is noteworthy, the writers unfortunately veer into antisecularist bigotry, falsely equating secularism (freedom of religion) with agnosticism.
We should, therefore, “own” homosexual sin. One cannot own what one does not understand, and the authors clearly do not understand homosexuality:
Homosexuality is about resentment. “At its root, homosexuality is a love of sameness rather than difference.” This is sheer, unsubstantiated bigotry. “We understand that homosexuality is a deep longing for communion with the masculine, a longing that has been trampled by neglectful or abusive fathering.” Sexist pseudo-Freudian rubbish. The authors complain about secularism one moment, then indulge in a 19th-century atheist’s prejudices the next.
Christian fathers are a primary cause of the curse of homosexuality. This is an adolescent blame game.
Homosexuality will only pass when Christian fatherhood is pleasing to God. The authors speak only vaguely about fathers’ “refusal to live self-sacrificially.” They fail to define exactly what forms of fatherhood would be pleasing.
Our repentance lives under a curse. On the surface, this may sound like more pre-Christian superstition, reminiscent not of true Christianity, but of witches and goblins. But the authors seem to be saying that antigay Christians must repent rather than fight an opposing category of sinners.
Our repentance must defy all attempts to make our repentance illegal. I sense a trace of paranoia and scapegoating here — a denial of ample evidence that conservative Christians have sought to make being gay illegal through discrimination and sodomy laws, while the U.S. tolerance movement has made no comparable effort to discriminate against or imprison people because of their Christianity. (While many antigay activists have sought to silence, fire or imprison people merely because they are same-sex-attracted, a mere fringe of militant progay activists has sought to silence people — not because the targets are Christian, but because they use taxpayer-subsidized venues to air antigay religious propaganda that are deemed incendiary by the would-be silencers.)
We must have reformation in the Church. This is political correctness by another name. Which isn’t a bad thing, necessarily — sometimes political correctness of the left or right is really just an expectation by some that others will conform to common decency and good manners. But please spare me any self-congratulatory talk about “reformation” — if political correctness is an unsuitable description, then please try “power grab”: The authors position themselves as the sole arbiters of worship that is “false and corrupt” and then demand that the entire nation “submit to the Lordship of Jesus Christ.”
Side issues about science: The authors declare genetics irrelevant, and I agree but for very different reasons.
Language: Having failed to define sodomy, the authors eschew left-right rhetoric but resort to an even sluttier reduction of morality: Faithfulness vs. sodomy — as if sodomy (whatever it is) were the only sin. To their credit, the authors acknowledge gay-baiting (whatever that is) as a sin — but then return to their superstitious assumption that a “homosexual lifestyle” exists and that gay people of faith are at odds with faith and virtue — how so, the authors do not bother to explain. Among their superstitions, the authors falsely assert, “Homosexuals say they are ‘queer’,” “they are miserable….”
The destruction of our civil order: The authors conclude by returning to their atheist 19th-century father-bashing. In doing so, they ignore the damage potentially done by the religious right to civil order.
You know, I think that ignoring Wilson and his ilk is the best reply. He runs a tiny church in Moscow, Iowa and sadly is gaining more prominence in the various Reformed Christian denominations than he ought. As you point out, the WorldMag Blog recently asked readers to reply to Wilson’s essay: https://www.worldmagblog.com/blog/archives/015763.html and, as with any post there about homosexuality, there was a slew of comments–one hundred and ten as I write this. Interestingly, many of those writing thought Wilson’s reply was too “liberal.” Still, why would Olasky draw attention to someone like Wilson, whose divisiveness within the church is well-known, on a subject already divisive?
Doug Wilson is a man who takes himself and his inner circle so seriously that they publish entire magazine issues on their thoughts on Cheese (https://credenda.org/issues/16-5.php).
Why should we give them any more recognition? It’s like wasting your breath on the godhatesfags website–they’re small-minded, insulated people on whom we shouldn’t waste energy. I wasted enough time reading his books when I was attempting to become a godly, “feminine” ex-lesbian and find a “masculine” Christian man to marry and submit myself to. It saddens me to see him get exposure outside of those small circles.
Correction: Moscow, Idaho not Iowa. Sorry about the typo. The church’s site is here: https://www.christkirk.com/
These comments are excellent. I find it very interesting as a Latter-day Saint who is gay that pretty much ever since I can remember many Evangelicals and several other mainstream Christians have used this same rhetoric against the Mormon Church. If you go to practically any Christian bookstore they will have their “cult” section where they sell many anti-Mormon books that are often outrageous in their rediculous claims about what Mormons believe, etc. They even have movies about it with sinister music playing in the background about how people get duped into the “Mormon cult”. It therefore does not surprise me to see these same adolescent tactics used against the gay community.
I served a mission for the Mormon Church in Orange County, California and while there my companion and I spoke on more than one occasion with a Cathlolic Priest. He told us that he felt that much of Evangelical Christianity was a “baby food religion” in that it seemed to lack the depth and maturity that is really found in the New Testament. He told us “this religion can typically only take you so far and that is it as far as growth is concerned.” I must conclude that far too many organized Christian religions are that way in that they do not honor the God given gift of free agency of their members and uphold each individuals personal relationship with God unless they uphold the teachings of their pastor or James Dobson, etc. If they are supportive of gay people and believe they have a part in God’s plan as GLBT people then their spirituality is somehow suspect and ridiculed as out of step with Christianity. Many Evangelicals seem to think that personal spirituality is anathema to the Church order.
While I am painfully aware of the anti-gay stance that both the Mormon and the Catholic Churches (alot of denial and dysfunction) have shown over the past several decades, I think that the Evangelicals have been (by far) the most shrill, obnoxious and very hypocritical in their anti-gay rhetoric and politics. It’s pathetic. I truly believe that the Evangelical movement has lost much of the vision of what Christ’s gospel is all about. It is the pharisaical judgement that I despise and there tends to be far too much of that kind of self-righteous posturing within the movement.
Wilson seems like a particularly clever man. He is able to come up with relatively new ideas and is willing to go out on a limb. For instance, “he has stirred virulent controversy by defending the institution of slavery in the South…”
Yes, this is someone the Christian right needs to listen to.
MikeA says: Our repentance lives under a curse. On the surface, this may sound like more pre-Christian superstition, reminiscent not of true Christianity, but of witches and goblins.
As a Wiccan, I am unaware of any ‘Witches’, which is the self chosen term of art for Wiccans, who traffic in repentance. This is a very specific Christian idea. One that has no real corresponding concept within modern living Paganism. ISTM that ‘repentance’ is a term covering a relationship with commercial overtones. It is something bought and sold on the Christian market. Nor am I away of any who consort with these undefined ‘goblins’.
I agree that sentence needs a rewrite — it occurred to me shortly after I wrote it, that I was speaking not of real-world Wiccans, but of the popular stereotype of witches as women on broomsticks, twitching their noses, uttering curses, and dabbling with “voodoo” (another stereotype — not to be confused with real-world voodoo.