XGW has covered the strange story of David Pickup from several angles, but perhaps none so bizarre as this parody from our friends on Planet Narth. Apparently the sky is rather pink there.
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XGW has covered the strange story of David Pickup from several angles, but perhaps none so bizarre as this parody from our friends on Planet Narth. Apparently the sky is rather pink there.
No thanks.
The Bel Ami-style soundtrack really provides ambience.
He said “Go Deep”, not “Go down”. How can anybody see that as a pickup line?
Oh wait. It is.
1. Why would straight men, or men who aren’t gay give a sh*t about his ‘stats’?
2. If he’s NOT gay himself, why would he give that info to OTHER gay men supposedly seeking ‘dating advice’?
3. Which KIND of dating his he talking about?
I know that dating is difficult regardless of one’s sexual orientation. Once a person is in their middle aged years, it’s even more daunting to find someone without a lot of tough experiences behind them already that could either sour or a person or make them shy.
Straight men, don’t need instructions on how to be attracted to the opposite gender, it’s trusting other levels of compatibility….like, common interests, being able to get along with children from previous relationships, age differences or economic issues and health and body ones too.
I don’t want to date my gay best friend…I, as a straight woman would want a man who doesn’t need so much deep thought, exercises and intense training for what is essentially the EASIEST part of relationships: attraction, the FIRST look.
If a guy needs all that boot camp just to be attracted to a woman, and woman isn’t for him and it’s not worth his effort, time or money.
I wish these ex gay people would understand that and quit herniating everyone over something so ludicrous. I don’t want to compete with lesbians for a serious relationship either.
That would REALLY suck bad wind. I love my gay friends, and I’m happiest when they are with who they REALLY are attracted to and can relate to the best.
But in this arena, since I’m not gay….this matchmaking gay TO straight or in the opposites direction really doesn’t work well, and it can make those of us already distrustful of our ability at relationships even LESS secure about it.
The ex gay playbook is loaded with bad plays, clotheslining and sacking…who needs that?
I watched the original video on the website. What I think is most disturbing is that the implication is a homosexual male has not reached manhood.
The other thing I found disturbing, if not sad or humorous or both, is this 911 call crapola. What I want to know is what kind of woman would want to be with a guy who, during foreplay let’s say, has to speed dial this quack and tell her, “Hold on baby, gotta get some help from the doc.” I think these kind of people who truly believe in this pseudo help have a very low opinion on women… as if women are to bare a man’s burden even if it be his attraction to other men. She is suppose to date this kind of man and be patient with him until he can somehow have intercourse with her.
And mind you, he will probably never see her as the object of his affection. She will only be an outlet for his sexual frustrations and not truly the object of his true desires. It’s as if the ex-gay is saying, “Look God. I’m having relations with a woman. Do you love me now? Do I get to go to heaven now?”
And the woman is suppose to think she is letting a man have sex with her so she can bring him closer to God. She is the tool to win him over to Christ.
Sick sick sick sick. These people shame the name of religion in particular, and shame the name of humanity in general.
Just to clarify, this video is a parody from Youtube user “Planet Narth.” The clips and stats which were used do appear to be from other items published by PIckup, but not for a dating video per se.
Ooooooh! Thanks David….!
Hee hee…but still.
Alan, I couldn’t have said it better myself. That is a user mentality, and it’s SO very wrong.
Dispassionate really, and a simpleton response to what one would hope is a more complex and enduring path to real romance.
The way the ex gays go about it, it’s only so much gender based mechanics, rather than individual aspects that one should find appealing.
You’re right, Alan S.
Sick.
I’m not impressed by their reasoning, I’m really not.
It’s as if we’re all a bunch of coffeemakers, programmed to make coffee at birth. Only certain ones of us make tea, or hot cocoa. And they’re all in our faces going, “you’re supposed to make coffee! God wants you to make coffee!” It doesn’t seem to occur to them that we don’t even have coffee beans!
Except we’re not machines, we weren’t built with one singular function. Getting a teakettle to make coffee is no amazing feat, but wonder what logic demands such action when you’ve got so many perfectly good coffeemakers all over. You’re in no danger of not having coffee. Some of us just have tea instead.
David Pickup??? Stats, “Go Deep”–Puh—leeeeze!