I’ve recently subscribed to Duncan Bouwer’s ExGayTalk podcast. Duncan is an ex-gay, music teacher, father and husband in Johannesburg, South Africa. His most recent podcast titled “Yes I am in Denial” is of particular merit. He has a sense of humor that really shines, nor does he make outrageous claims like “complete change is completely possible.” Rather he admits to a continuing struggle and approaches his change from a biblical instead of pseudo-psychological perspective. Duncan notes his humor may raise the ire of ex-ex-gay folk like me. If all exgays had a sense of humor like Duncan my job would be much more enjoyable. His podcasts are filled with personal experience and simply quoted scripture. Even though many of us disagree with him, Duncan is pleasant, straightforward and honest; overall a refreshing change from the bombastic rhetoric I’m used to dealing with.

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