- Free resources on Judaism and LGBT issues now available from Hebrew Union College’s Jewish Institute of Religion
- New report on effectiveness of ex-gay therapy shows “robot-like parroting” of rhetoric, according to Jim Burroway
- In case you missed it, Christian TV host Azariah Southworth came out gay
- Cornell PhD student Gabriel Arana reminisces about three years of therapy under Dr Joseph Nicolosi
Just highlighting a few comments from Gabriel Arana’s above listed article.
Off topic- With all the outrage over reparative therapy, has anyone bothered to take note that the APA has made Kenneth Zucker, advocate and practitioner of reparative therapy on children, as chair of the DSM V Sexual and Gender Identity Disorders Work Group? Is there any room for outrage there?
Boo, I came to know about the news only yesterday while reading Questioning Transphobia. I am still waiting for more to dig on. It will be here soon.
Hey, folks, I dunno if you’re aware of what’s going on with the APA lately, since nominally this primarily affects trans folks at the moment; still, heads up:
https://www.bilerico.com/2008/05/uh_oh.php
Actually, this already affectsLGBs, not just Ts, as the majority of the kids subjected to Zucker’s “treatment” grow up to be gay, not trans. I’m just wondering if any reaction to this will be seen outside of the trans ghetto.
Boo and belledame222, I repeat again, we are on it. But let us get more information to get to the bottom of this. This comes in wake of the cancellation of APA’s symposium on homosexuality and religion. Expect an XGW response soon.
When i read Belle’s comments, the part where it says,
I remembered the short talk i had with a theologian expert (with background on gay/ex-gay issues) about ‘being gay’. He could not say enough that it was a gender disorder. On the grounds that a MALE is attracted(supposed and presumed, on the grounds of anatomy and/or religion) to a woman. Since that is NOT the case then your gender is ‘broken’/disordered. To believe I wasn’t was just naive from my part.
If these ppl consider ‘gender specific’ qualities to be the basis of considering a disorder, then i guess efiminate men and manly woman might be subjected to ‘treatment’ too?
I dotn see how wearing/wanting to wear a skirt instead of jeans or make-up instead of nothing makes you ‘disordered’ in any way. Maybe its something deeper that im missing(like wanting boobs and such).
Joel, that IS precisely how some ex-gays are treating LGBTs. For them there is no such thing as homosexuals or transsexuals. In the end it must be male and female, and both must relate.
Ephilei nailed it on her comment at the latest post here on PFOX. We are no longer seen as independent inner beings with the ability to live and love. We must conform to standards based on how males and females stereotypically are supposed to behave and dress up. Any other diversions to these are considered distortions that needs to be corrected, regardless of what life and experiences prove.
Failure to absorb into the community of heterosexual manly males and feminine females will be met with scorn and contempt. Funnily, in all this, the Holy Spirit that is defined as neither male or female does not exist anymore. What is left are men that must act according to the original penis, and women that must act according to the original vagina.
Just to continue the hijacking of the thread:
https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=90247842
Perhaps some ex-gay survivors could read the first account and tell us how it contrasts and compares?
Couple things that struck me:
“What had happened was that two 10-year-old boys had thrown him off some playground equipment across the pavement because he’d been playing with a Barbie doll — and they called him a girl,” Carol says. “So that sort of struck me, that, you know, if he doesn’t learn to socialize with both males and females … he was going to get hurt.”
Notice how the onus is placed on the child for getting beat up. The child has to learn to socialize with people who beat them up for acting too effeminate. Not kids who beat up other kids need to learn to, you know, not beat the crap out of other kids.
“Suppose you were a clinician and a 4-year-old black kid came into your office and said he wanted to be white. Would you go with that? … I don’t think we would,” Zucker says.
1. As far as we know, that’s never happened.
2. I’ve never heard of cases of 2 year old black kids acting “spontaneously white” or 2 year old white kids acting “spontaneously black.” Transkids exhibit a range of spontaneous gendered behaviors that simply have no equivalent in terms of race.
And the kicker, at least from what is shown in the article, the transitioned kid is clearly having the better outcome so far.