Normalizing the behavior has always been the crux of the gay agenda. Part of the process involves mainstreaming the lifestyle through entertainment.
–Unattributed quote, Transgender Plot Unfolds on Daytime TV, Focus On The Family News
For those who haven’t heard, the ABC Soap Opera All My Children (AMC) is adding a transitioning transgender/transsexual character. GLAAD and some New York based transpeople have done some consulting with the AMC producers with the goal of creating a realistic, transitioning character. That might be a little hard since they named the character “Zarf” and made hir a rock star, but hey — this is a soap opera we’re talking about.
Damon Romine, GLAAD’s entertainment media director, was one of the consultants and had this to say about the storyline:
“Telling the story of a character’s transition from male to female is groundbreaking television. All My Children has a track record of telling honest and important stories, and we applaud them for their commitment to sharing Zarf’s story with compassion and integrity.”
GLAAD is glad; others aren’t so happy. Janice Crouse, of the Concerned Women for America, says that:
… the show’s plot is no accident, but a carefully planned strategy by gay advocates.
“They will push as far as they can until the people say, ‘That’s far enough.’ You can be sure, unless we express our outrage, this will continue to heaven knows how far they will go.”
Bob Knight, director of the Culture and Media Institute at the Media Research Center has his reaction captured in an AgapePress article:
Knight says ABC “likes to think of itself as cutting edge,” and the network has already, along with countless others in the entertainment industry, embraced the homosexual agenda fully. Therefore, he suggests, ABC is now bringing a transgendered character onto All My Children, largely “to shock, to get headlines, and to try to get more people to watch one of their longtime soaps.”
Pro-homosexual ABC and Hollywood think Judeo-Christian standards are “just a holdover from a bigoted, superstitious era,” the culture and media analyst contends, and as self-described progressives, they need to attack those faith-based values. “They are dedicated to tear down every moral standard,” he says, “and they’re now using the transgender people to do it.”
Meanwhile, Knight asserts, transgender individuals themselves are among the homosexual agenda’s casualties. “I see these poor, sexually confused people as victims and pawns of a larger movement that wants to destroy Christianity and to turn America into a country we would no longer recognize,” he says.
Knight believes homosexual activists and their supporters realize that the homosexual lifestyle is so empty and devoid of meaning that the best they can do is to continue shocking people. (emphasis added.)
And, Exodus International’s Alan Chambers has a section devoted to his reaction to the AMC TG character in Focus On The Family News’ Transgender Plot Unfolds on Daytime TV. From the article:
…Alan Chambers, President of Exodus International, says it won’t be a true depiction of what life is like for transgendered people.
“What it does is really highlights the inaccuracies, and fails to convey the complexities and the difficulties that people who are struggling with these things face.”
Although the show’s producers were prepped by folks from GLAAD, Chambers worries they still won’t portray the issue in the right light.
“The people who are transgendered, the people who are in homosexuality, I would venture to say from personal experience, that they’re not at peace and that true love isn’t able to be found in those types of relationships.”
That folk of Crouse’s, Knight’s, and Chambers’ ilk would comment on a transgender soap opera character was of course to be expected. I know I was waiting for the other shoe to drop as soon as I read the initial AP stories on AMC’s character plans.
That said, I find it difficult to believe Bob Knight has much, if any, sympathy for transpeople like me as “victims and pawns of a larger movement that wants to destroy Christianity and to turn America into a country we would no longer recognize.” He’s previously said of transgender golfer Mianne Bagger and the United States Golf Association:
“The USGA has now surrendered to the decadence and political correctness that is sweeping over Europe,” he says. “One would have thought that the USGA would have had more backbone. The women’s golf tour should be about women, not castrated males.”
Knight adds that “the blurring of the sexes is a direct insult to God and athletes who expect to complete with their own [gender].” (emphasis added)
As for Alan Chambers’ comments, I don’t believe Chambers has the slightest clue of what a “true depiction” of a transperson’s life might look like anymore than what a gay person’s life looks like. (Remember, this is the same Chambers who’s affiliated with the TV program that says homosexuals don’t exist.) Chambers no doubt interacts more with people who identify as ex-transgender than those like me who currently identify as transgender, but even beyond that I can see in his quotes above that he’s again confusing gender identity with sexual orientation. He appears to be making the assumption that all transgender people are looking for male-to-male same-sex relationships as a function of being transgender. Well, my personal experience is that I’ve never had a sexual relationship with a man, and have no intention of ever having one. A significant percentage of transgender women identify as lesbian or asexual. (And, it’s been estimated that up to a third of transmen identify as gay men, so there may be the actual male-to-male same-sex relationships Chambers believes transpeople engage in.)
On an episode of The Simpsons a few seasons back, Lisa responded to gay pride marchers chanting the slogan “We’re here, we’re queer, get used to us” by saying “You do this every year! We are used to it!” We seem to be on the cusp of a similar moment in transgender history — the media is getting used to the “us” that are transgender. Although this sudser character is going to be the first transitioning transgender character on scripted American television, this by far isn’t the first transgender character on scripted American television. And hey — there have been plenty more transgender characters on reality shows like the Surreal Life and documentaries like Transgeneration. Transpeople exist; transpeople’s lives are going to be reflected in the media because we do exist.
Crouse, Knight, and Chambers may not like it, but just as LGB people entered the mainstream years ago, transgender people are more and more coming into the mainstream. Religious right organizations and their ex-gay political allies aren’t going to be able to turn the clock back on the media’s — and the general public’s — interest in transpeople.
Knight adds that “the blurring of the sexes is a direct insult to God and athletes who expect to complete with their own [gender].”
I would like to say that is the most absurd thing I have read all week, but having access to the XGW mail boxes, sadly it isn’t.
Alan Chambers says “I would venture to say from personal experience, that they’re not at peace and that true love isn’t able to be found in those types of relationships.”
Well, Alan, you’re not in a position to speak for transgendered women like me. I have found true love despite the wishes of hateful people like you who would try to prevent that.
Last I heard being trans isn’t a type of relationship.
I am a transgendered women. I am successful in my career and live life in society with no problems. I don’t really associate with the ‘gay’ crowd which is one reason why I don’t understand why this is even a topic on this website. For me (not speaking for others in my situation), my transexuality is not about ‘sexuality’ as much as my identity as a person. It is ironic that so called ‘straight people’ are more interested in sex than some of us who just live everyday lives as the people we were born to be. I look forward to the day when God will judge ALL men according to the motives of their heart 1 Samuel 16:7. That day is coming soon!
Jan,
The focus of this site is on the ex-gay ministries. Because the ex-gay ministries conflate homosexuality and transexuals in their political efforts and their public testimony, we include those here who can speak about transexual issues from experience.
Because the head of Exodus commented on the soap character – and did so inaccurately and from a position of condescention and contempt – it is appropriate to challenge the lies and bigotry of his statements. Alan Chambers has no “personal experience” to speak from on this issue as he has never sought sexual reassignment nor – as best we can tell – lived transexually.
And his claims that gay people and transexuals are “not at peace and that true love isn’t able to be found in those types of relationships” are really little other than a bigoted effort to demonize others for political efforts. It is important that we not let such hateful lies go unchallenged.
So that’s why this thread is here.
Although you don’t associate with the “gay” crowd, I do hope you continue to check in with us from time to time. Your perspective is welcome here.
Jan,
Timothy pretty much summed up why I commented on what Alan Chambers, Jan Crouse, and Bob Knight said.
You’re a transgender woman, but you’re grouped by ex-gay ministries and religious right organizations with gay men — as a particularly gender-confused type of gay man. And perhaps worse, they see you as an affront to God.
What ex-gay ministries and religious right organizations say about transmen and transwomen is generally off-base, senseless, or just plain incorrect, and here at the Ex-Gay Watch I’m the transgender contributer watching what these ministries and organizations say, and pointing why what they say about transmen and transwomen is generally off-base, senseless, or just plain incorrect.
What she said 😉
Another Post-op Lesbian here who is in a stable 12 year relationship and successful in a career, and church.
Some don’t think I don’t exist either.
Perhaps I misunderstood the gest of the site and this page (first time here). I think this is a good place where the injustice of misinformation is pointed out. I think transgendered individuals are very much misunderstood.
One more thing, I think it is ironic that these so called ‘Family Values Types’ (I use to be one of those) would even care about daytime soaps. If one is going to speak about things ‘unChristian’ how about the adultery, pre-martial sex, wife swapping, and other goings on. I always thought it was funny that my Christian sister-in law would condemned me for my transsexual situation and then record soaps to watch at night??? That is not to put down Christians – because I am one and have been one for many years. It is just that I see a double standard here among those who condemn and judge us.
Thanks Autumn for educating me!
Please continue to drop by Jan 🙂
It’s a tv show. At least they are injecting DIVERSITY into the show.
The bottom line is ratings…and shows compete in a tight market. My biggest beef is that they’ll have the character, but then they don’t know what to do with them.
It’s as if they stop at a token gesture, but can’t articulate on a broader level, even a LITTLE reality into what trans folks go through.
Mr. Ig’nint Chambers doesn’t know anyone transgender, let alone many from many backgrounds.
I have been a fortunate woman in that I do. I would laugh my ass off at what this man says, except for people who take him seriously.
What I don’t understand is why someone would even care what he says WITHOUT actually meeting, knowing or having a social relationship with someone transgendered.
Why not learn from the source whose life it is he’s talking about?
Him being expert on transgenders is like him being an expert on big mouthed black women!
Another thing I don’t like IS this condescending attitude. I’d read my first books on transgendered people when I was fourteen. Encouraged to by my folks (who considered ignorance an enemy). I would take Chamber’s attitude, even if I were a kid, and see him for what he is.
Indeed, I would know better than him….and I wouldn’t have let him forget it.
I know he’d hate it too.
( :O P
Kinda like not buying a used car from him.
Him being expert on transgenders is like him being an expert on big mouthed black women!
Maybe he doesn’t have the pleasure of knowing one. I recommend it highly.
😉
Timothy!
I love you too, my brother!
:OP